Linda's Little Britain - About the Dutch
Fun facts about the Dutch
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Submitted by: Linda   Date: 2014-08-08 08:21
 
About the Dutch

Since cultures differ it is a good thing to learn a few things about the Dutch culture
and habits. Maybe some Dutch habits will seem strange to you, but in general the
Dutch are quite easy going. This chapter will help you to get started.

We’re all equal
In general the Dutch are easy going when it comes to formalities. They more or less
see and treat everyone equally. Maybe you will be taken aback a little by the fact that
especially in the academic world, the relationship between students and the academic
staff is usually informal in the way that they address each other.

Hello and good-bye
When they get together, friends will usually say ‘Hi’ to each other and sometimes
shake hands. If the friend concerned is female, you may add three kisses on the cheeks
usually starting on the right side. Of course, if you do not feel comfortable doing it
this way, you can get by with just shaking hands.

Everything according to plan
The Dutch lead very planned lives. At 10.30 a.m. they drink coffee. Lunch (usually
sandwiches) is around 1 p.m. At approximately 3 p.m. they drink coffee or tea.
At 6 p.m. most people eat their hot evening meal. At 8 p.m. they watch the news.
At approximately 11 p.m. most Dutch people go to bed.

The Weather
The Dutch spend a lot of time talking about the weather. Many conversations begin with:
‘Nice weather, isn’t it?’ Or: ‘My God, it just won’t clear up, will it?’ If you want to strike up
a conversation with a stranger, talk about the weather: you can’t go wrong. Many people
complain about the weather, but most Dutch wouldn’t want to live in another climate.






Punctuality
Dutch people often keep track of the exact time. In general, they are punctual. If you
are late, this irritates them very much. The Dutch equate not being on time with not
being trustworthy; they can’t count on you. A person who is late for a job interview
will not be hired. Tip: always be on time. In the Netherlands, it is better to be ten
minutes early than five minutes late.

Coffee
Coffee is an essential part of Dutch life. When the Dutch invite you to their homes,
they often promptly serve you a cup of coffee or tea. Is this a hint that you should
not stay too long? Quite the contrary: In the Netherlands, a steaming cup of coffee
is a hearty welcome. With each cup your host or hostess will offer you a cookie – one
cookie, mind you – after which the lid goes back on the cookie tin. The Dutch see
nothing uncongenial whatsoever in this ritual. Usually you will be offered a second cup
of coffee, again with one cookie. When two Dutch people have something to discuss, a
typical remark is: ‘Shall we have some coffee?’. This same expression is also used when the
beverage is not coffee, but tea.

Dropping by unannounced
The Dutch almost never visit each other without making an ‘appointment’ first. This
include close friends. People almost never drop by unannounced. The same rule
applies to family: first you call them (‘How would it be if we came by today?’). If your
visit would be inconvenient, your host will simply tell you so: ‘No, today isn’t a good
day. Come another time if you like’. The Dutch do not consider this rude or blunt,
but ‘honest’. In these situations, honesty is considered more important than tact. The
Dutch also like to know exactly when you intend to arrive. That gives them time to tidy
up the room and have a steaming cup of coffee ready when you ring the doorbell.

Getting straight to the point
When the Dutch have to discuss a difficult topic, their usual approach is to plunge
right into it. They hardly even take the time to sit and relax. They do not gradually
work up to the difficult subject, but come straight to the point. To you this probably
makes a blunt and tactless impression.
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